How pregnancy change my perception towards Babies

crystalmaiden (50)in #life • 6 years ago

I used to HATE babies/kids. They're noisy, attention seeking, helpless, annoying ugly little creatures. Let the devil take them !

Until...

I saw 2 visibly obvious lines on a pregnancy test kit.

I remember I was sitting on the toilet bowl, all blank out. Questions started to pop in my mind. Can I take care of him/her ? Do I even know how to be a parent ?

My first time having a ultrasound, which means it's my first time seeing my child.

I smiled.

I was very overwhelmed . I was happy. Thus, my love towards babies begin.

I have ZERO experience when it comes to handling babies. I take lots of pride when it comes to the upbringing of my son mainly because I was 21 and I had ZERO help.

Just look at that drumstick !

Who would knew a newbie mom like me can bring up a baby so well 😆

P/S: Not only do I not have any help, I do received lots of headache as well 😑

Eg: It took me 1 hour to make my boy sleep and it takes a person less than a min to wake him up just to play with him and walk away after that. Then I have to spare another hour, or HOURS to make him sleep.

Tummy time without anyone teaching me 😄

I taught him how to walk

Thanks to my boy, I've learnt to be independent and motivated.

And not forgetting to mention, there are times where I feel I'm a 'baby whisperer'. 😆

There was an incident where my colleague brought his newborn son to work and he was all cranky, I offered to help and of course, the baby slept soundly on my arms.

FINE ! I'LL ADMIT IT !

I OFFER TO LEND A HAND BECAUSE I MISS DEALING WITH NEWBORNS 😍 They're just the cutest living thing in the world !

I enjoy shopping for baby clothes, I love preparing meals every single day, I love teaching new stuff and last of all...

I LOVE IT WHEN MY BOY GIVES ME A VERY CHEEKY SMILE 😍

#teammalaysia #baby #motherhood #parenthood

6 years ago in #life by crystalmaiden (50)

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izyan (48) 6 years ago (edited)

Nice story you wrote here. Me too, I have the fear of having kids with the question - the world is a mess with a lot of harsh expectations, social problems, would they able to keep up?, am I able to provide what they need? , am I'm going to be a good mother?. All these questions pop up when I think of getting kids on my own in the future. But I think I will go down the journey same as yours...:)

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crystalmaiden (50) 6 years ago

I got my fair share of cruel expectation especially when it comes to becoming a mom at 21 ;) Plus I have to deal with pregnant hormones.

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calebleejl (57) 6 years ago

aww. you're like my wife as well! she also had not much love for babies and children. then first boy came and everything changed! love of her life now :)

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crystalmaiden (50) 6 years ago

Same goes to my hub. But he doesnt hate kid as much as I do la but he definitely spoil our boy. I was telling him, thank God I dint gave birth to a daughter or else she's going to be a 3rd party 😆

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