Great post full of wisdom and I think you hit the key issue with each example...respect. We need to stop looking at things that are best for ourselves and be open to hearing the input of others. We may not, as the leader in the relationship, agree, but we can listen and give honor to those who care enough to contribute. Both parties should be respectful in their comments and tone of voice to encourage learning, understanding, an for the promotion of further dialogue. Excellent post!