A lot of people, girls mostly, like to post sexy selfies on social media, but often are quite ashamed of it. Posting selfies of you feeling yourself on the gym or bathroom mirror is often looked at as vain, selfish and half-witted behavior, something you shouldn’t do.

I know a lot of people post a selfie, get the attention they felt they needed at that moment, and delete it after. The image didn’t loose its effect or the person suddenly turned ugly, but there is something people are afraid of leaving on record for longer time. Sometimes it might be because of what someone commented about it, but I think more often it’s the fear of what someone might say or even think of it.

Posting a selfie you like and then taking it down is like a quick fix of attention you later regret. I think it’s quite foolish behavior and if you initially liked the picture and wanted to show off that positive energy you are feeling inside you, there is no need to be ashamed of it. There is absolutely nothing wrong about loving yourself and showing to people that you are proud of yourself. No matter if it’s your bum in tight gym clothes or your naked curves.

People will forever and always judge each other, it’s in out nature and there is nothing to be done about it. You just have to deal with it. Nobody can make you feel ashamed of yourself if you yourself are in good terms with your inner workings.

I am not ashamed of what I do and what I am. There is no reason for it. I’m not ashamed of my body or showing it off. I’m not ashamed of feeling damn fine about what my body looks like and how I portray myself in my self portraits.

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These thoughts are brought to you from a coffee shop where I sat for an hour and a half working on the pictures I took yesterday. They are quite sexy and I don’t mind if someone sneaked in a glance of the screen while walking past. I’m gonna publish them for all of internet to see anyways, be on the lookout for that later today.