so true and well put. I've just been in a progress trying to realise my own faults and obstacles and finally overcome some I have struggled with for ages! I think you missed guilt as one of the, or it might fit under the regrets one. Because I realised I was feeling a lot of unecessary guilt that was holding me back from real living and self acceptance (okay I guess it could go under that as well!)
I still occasionally struggle with the decision part though!!