Remember, whoever you are do not draw conclusions and decide when you are angry

in #life6 years ago

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Remember, whoever you are do not draw conclusions and decide when you are angry, because sometimes when your heart and mind are dirty, the truth seems vague.

Misunderstanding may occur unexpectedly, but whatever power is the story that God wrote for you can learn to analyze patiently, wisely, and positively thinking.

Therefore, when you hear someone's mistakes or even see them directly, don't be careless about going and hating just like that, listen to the explanation, then decide your actions firmly.

He is a human being not an angel, so there is no way he will always be pure from error. So do not be selfish in closing your heart from the word "sorry" if indeed he made a mistake.

Why? Because God alone is all-forgiving, especially if you are a paradise, you won't necessarily live. That's why you have to be good at fighting your ego, and try to be a patient and forgiving person.

Because after all you have to be aware, that you are the same as any other human being, or even him that you think is wrong, because there is nothing perfect in this world except Allah Azza Wajalla.

It could be that someday you will be trapped in the same mistake, because it is very easy for God to reverse the situation of his servant.

Then when you find someone else's fault, be wise first, don't be careless with your heart with hatred, it could be a valuable lesson for you to be careful.

Don't decide to leave, just stay! Submitting your heart to be quiet for a moment, just to hear the explanation of why he made a mistake.

Because you are afraid that something you think is wrong is your analysis for a moment, and it turns out that everything that appears is just a misunderstanding.

You never decide to go just because of anger, or close your ears from an explanation, because it could be that the mistake really originated from you, it's just that you didn't realize it.

So learn to be calm when facing a problem, analyze it first with a patient mind and heart, because not a few people wrongly decide the cause of rash anger.

Because how many people are sorry for deciding to leave without hearing the actual explanation first.

How many people have decided on a good relationship just because they wrongly conclude the situation.

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