Thank you, kwyt <3 It was a very difficult relationship, that's for sure. I have tried to use it as a model for what NOT to do with my own life, if you see what I mean. Earlier in life that led me to a lot of rebellious, very destructive behaviour. I'm still learning how to really BE ME without (as Marshall Rosenberg said) 'giving them the power to make you submit or rebel.' It's an art in and of itself!