What you're describing in the article is, in essence, borderline personality disorder and/or narcissism. Both seek to isolate the victim in order to control them.

The root of this kind of behavior seems to stem from detachment disorders. These were the kids who couldn't play with the other kids on the playground. They didn't want to negotiate -- it's their way or the highway. Of course that kind of child is going to be ostracized, it's only natural. Unfortunately it only amplifies the monster that is the detachment disorder.

It's incredibly important to socialize your children when they're young. Take care of your kids!