Loss will only make us hurt, but it will hurt even more if we try to hold someone who wants to leave our lives
Everyone does not want him to lose, especially if he has to give up. But not everything we want is in line with expectations. Sometimes we are faced with difficult choices that we must take.
If not, then we will only hurt ourselves. Choosing is not always easy, sometimes the choice is difficult and not infrequently we ourselves have to bear the risk because there are times when our choices hurt
We love him so much, we don't want to lose it. But on the other hand he has not loved us even he has chosen to leave our lives.
When he has chosen to leave, there is nothing we can do but give up his departure.
Because no matter how hard we try to convince to stay, he will never stay, he will still leave our lives.
Everything is equally painful. When we lose it we will feel sad and hurt, when we who try to hold his departure in the end we only delay a separation and make the wound even deeper.
So let it go, the more we try to hold it back, the stronger it will be to leave us.
Eventually we will definitely lose it and we will be the ones who will get more hurt because they have tried to hold back.
It's useless to want to hold it back. After all, his determination was completely round.
We may fight for it as long as he also wants to fight for it, not just us who want to try to fight while he is reluctant to fight.
We can still fight for it but never forget in the end he will be released from our grasp. Because no matter how hard we want to keep his departure, those who choose to go will still leave.
Loss will only make us hurt, but it will hurt even more if we try to hold someone who wants to leave our lives.
It would be even more painful if we wanted to convince him to stay with us.
Whereas he prefers to leave our lives. So let it go, even though it's never easy to let it go. Because it's better to get sick than to be sick because of fighting for.
Never hold back, don't delay a farewell because in the end we ourselves will be hurt. No need to wait for a farewell because it will be more painful.
Then it's better to let go than to find a way to convince him who really wants to go. Because convincing is more difficult than giving up.
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