Dear Ladies, You do not need a man to Validate you 😊
Dear ladies,
It is only when you know Who you are , that you will know Who you are not. For as long as you don't know who you are, you will keep accepting any level of life a man proposes to give you.
If you knew what you are capable of becoming, you won't dump school, your goals in life and ambitions because a man promised you marriage.
If you knew what you could manifest into, you will NEVER settle for a full housewife life.
(PS: I'm not trying to drag the those who choose to become full house wives tho)
No man, absolutely, no man is doing you a favour by marrying you. Life is more than getting married, making babies, paying bills and dying just like that.
There is so much impact to make and so much to live for.
As a matter of fact, you are the one doing him a favor, you are the helpmeet in his life, you are the one to cook his meals and give him babies.
So why let yourself be bullied because you want to maintain the "Mrs" title???
No matter how great God has designed you to be, you only need to marry the wrong man to be ruined.
Damnation does not begin by going to Hell, it starts by marrying wrong.
Your husband is head over you, physically and spiritually, so no matter how great a life God has proposed for you, a wrong man over your life is like a bad board of directors over a company. No matter how great the prospects of that company is, it all be ruined because of its leadership.
Therefore let be careful Ladies, because choosing your husband is choosing your Future 📌
To be very honest and from a man's perspective, I think a girl that needs a man to validate herself, who is so insecure about herself, is very unattractive. She can be the prettiest but it doesn't matter.
People need to start understanding that appearance is not the most important thing in the world. Genuine expression is so much more attractive.
Thank you for this 🌸