Good and Bad Misconceptions

How many ways in life we want to take it. How much we want to accomplish. And do we do what is necessary for them? I mean, really do we? If you always think that an outside influence will change your life, let me tell you from the very beginning that you are very wrong. You need to do something; you have to do it cause nobody will do it for you.

In my own life, I have had many ups and downs. I realized later that the days that I have thought it has been a bad thing were good for me, and what I have thought it has been good was terrible. What has led to this bug in our mind is the "good" and "bad" concepts that almost all of us misinterpreted. "I'm fine if I'm smiling today, in a good mood, having fun with my friends and having a drink." Right? I thought so. I have smiled and had fun, drunk beers with my friends in a good mood, but then when I have started doing them every day, I have begun to feel trapped in the same spot. And aside from saving the day, I had realized that the things that helped me to make progress about what I wanted to accomplish in life were those times when I was depressed, oppressed, sacrificed, forced and sad.

Of course, it doesn't mean don't fun and let's have bad days. I don't want to be misunderstood. Everyone has the right to feel good, but if you use it like to avoid problems, traumas, responsibilities that we don't want to see, and most importantly to steal from our future, that's a big problem. I mean, in a sense, when we're not fooling ourselves.

You see that even the most compelling things turn into tiny, tiny fun when we leave the momentary pleasures and pursue something more significant in life. And all those learned concepts, perceptions are beginning to change again that what is good and what is bad.

Don't stay away from yourself, be aware!

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