Hmm... Agreed. Sometimes people tend to do a Lotta stuff so as to please the ones they care about, not being careful to understand what it is they might really need. This doesn't scale, more often that not, and it might lead one to feelings of regrets and inadequacy. Who knows, maybe they never needed it anyways. Is best to not stress for anyone, especially when they don't need those things. You'd hurt yourself, you'd burn-out.