5 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER APOLOGISE FOR IN LIFE

in #life5 years ago

As human beings we are entitled to make mistakes always because we are not perfect. When we make such mistakes, we are expected to apologise in a case whereby our mistakes hurt others. However, there are few cases whereby the things we do to improve our own self still hurt others. Do we still apologise for that too? No! I shouldn't feel guilty making myself a priority.

Here Are 5 Things You Should Never Apologise For In Life.

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(1) For Putting Yourself First

Making oneself a priority is often confused for selfishness but its really not selfishness. You should always look out for yourself because at the end of the day, nobody will do that for you. True you should make sacrifices but it still boils down to the question "Is the sacrifice worth it?" Don't let anyone get you twisted in the selfishness talk for putting yourself first.

(2) For Showing Your Feelings

Somehow in persent age, people that show or tell people about their feelings are seen as weak, immature and attention seekers, especially for guys. People are not expected to be strong and hard. But trust me, there is nothing wrong with showing your feelings. There is nothing wrong with being angry, laughing out loud or admitting you like someone. Never apologise for that.

(3) For Saying "No".

Sometimes people are so nice that they would like to help everyone that need their help, to the extent that they can't say no to people even when they already have so many task at hand. Always learn to tell people NO when you can't help them. Some times people will just make you feel bad by saying "you agreed to help him, why can't you help me too?" Understand you can't help everyone sometimes and don't be apologetic for that.

(4) For Letting Go Of Toxic People

I understand that its very tough being friends with someone for many years and then you one day had to be in a position where you have to choose between your health and the friendship. But if you find yourself in such situation, you have to choose your health. But never apologise for letting go of friends with negative energy or bad friends who might lead you into cultism or taking hard drugs.

(5) For Not Replying A Message Faster

This last one is very common when chatting with friends on messenger or whatsapp. Yeah i must admit its sometimes annoying if someone doesn't reply your message faster, especially when you see they've read the message. But i don't apologise for that because you don't know what going on with me in real life. You texted me at you free time, i have the right to reply at my convinience too. Except its business related, I don't apologise for that.

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I know some of these thing may sound selfish or egoistic but its a matter of perspective. They may change with time as i grow and learn more. But these are 5 things i currently don't apologise for anymore. Feel free to tell me what you think about them down below.

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