Control Our Emotions......

in #life6 years ago

Continue From "We Are Not God...."

We do know we need to love one another, but we do fail most of the time. When People start to hate us, we use to hate back, avoid from the person and we will talk about the person’s bad story. We used to say that in life, if you are not bad to me, I will be nice to you back.

But sometime, if you are nice to people, you may not get back nice outcome. We cannot be nice to other people all the time and all the people also may not nice to us. Every one of us have each level of limit and when over the limit they may get mad or explode out.

You can be nice to everyone, but some people are very rude and they are not deserve to be nice. When I meet this type of people, I try to avoid from them. But sometime if I can’t avoid, I try to behave like nice person to him and if he still rude to me, I will walk away as fast as possible.

If we always think of how other people will feel about our behaviour, you can become much better and better. If you feel uncomfortable with other people behaviour, we should not copy or act like them. And if we always give other people to first priority, you will get more peaceful and get our live much easier.

And don’t expect from the other that they will give us first priority, and you should give to other people to first priority. Because we do not know how other people are suffering from something. They may look normal but they might suffer or their family member might suffer or need them urgently. Some time it might be young mother may need to rush for their baby.

If we only see for ourselves, no one can see us from their side. Peace is in us and need to start from us. No one can give us peace, we ourselves produce peace for ourselves. No one cannot make us happy, we can share our peace to other, so that they might not disturb by our behaviour.

But we do have felling for everything as we are a live and human. If we cannot feel anything, we must be something wrong at somewhere. Nothing wrong with we have emotion to feel about something,

but we have to control ourselves that don't let our emotions take over on us. Because the emotions in you is not the same felling with your surrounding people.

We can be sad for some reason and happy or angry. But we should control ourselves don’t overdo it. Some people happy until disturb to other people and some people angry and destroy other people property and some people feel very sad and suicide themselves. Freedom does not mean can do everything what we like.

We can do whatever we like but if not effect to other people’s life disturbing will be much meaningful.

We need to dream big think big and do focus on our dream to achieve our own goals. Need to Stay meaningful and useful to other is purpose of our life on the earth. We use to say focus on ourselves and keep fighting for our life as long as we alive.

To Be Continue.....

GO WELL....(By: PatrickSanLin. MSC 007)

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Loved it. Following you now.

thank you so much.

thank you for today's sharing... much appreciated.

thank you again buddy... see you.(BTW, where do you stay? i stay at woodlands)

near tiong bahru

it, quite far from me, hope to see you soon.

yes.. i usually go to liang court or chinatown.. occasionally goes to beauty world

Good post! Sometimes people are rude because they are angry or suffering inside. Instead of being angry with them, we should forgive them. Or we should just simply ignore them. A little bit of unkindness from people are not going to kill us. Bear with it for a little bit, and all will be fine again, when the moment passes. Cheers!

yes buddy, sometime i really feel like i am standing alone in this earth. without relationship with God, each one of cannot survive.

We should give Generosity and Beloving for others without wanting feedback. But, If we can do that, we will achieve the better results.
Thank for sharing.

yes you are right, when we get back negative return , we will be more depress...

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