Excellent @chbartist, each person is responsible for their destiny, each one must carve his way to where he wants to go, draw a north, there is a very successful book in this the fault is the cow, guao that life lessons we find there, for that we must learn to discern, that everything that happens to us in the realacion, in the work, with the children, is our and only responsibility, it is very easy to say that it is bad for me because another person has my eyes on me, not Do not give power to the same one that controls you, and follow your objectives.
Blessed day for all!