I enjoy your rationale! I think that a balance between everyones femininity and masculinity is ideal. I suppose we all have both within us, both sacred, both important. I value the rational and strength of my boyfriend, and still hold him when he cries. And he enjoys the flowery and artistic feminism within me, and still spars with me when I want to. It is a balancing act! Neither can be without the other. I am constantly astounded at the irrationality of many 'feminists' who try and confuse the whole thng or shove it into a box.