Very well written!
Such thoughts even bother me at times that why do we all end up in this fictitious mess! I've learnt from my life experiences so far that whatever you just talked about is just a result of those damn hormones inside of us which we don't understand well in our teenage years. Perhaps we need to make sure that people from the start of their teenage years are made aware of these so-called "hormonal traps" that everyone goes through at their puberty. Because as far as I understand, it's just how nature works, kids grow up, hit their puberty, and hormones say, you know what, let me take the driving wheel now. But we fail to understand that this happens not for us to find love per say, but it does so just because that's how we have evolved over so many years to satisfy our innate urge to get intimate with the opposite sex because thats just how we reproduce our offsprings right!