GROWING YOUR SELF ESTEEM

in #life6 years ago


The level of a person’s self esteem determines how much of self worth that person’s has given to his/herself, knowing your self worth determines how you let people of the society treats you, it determines how you relate with people, the people you relate with and this heightens your sense of maturity.
But there are some certain people in the society that find it very difficult to get their self esteem on track, they could be

  1. HANDICAPPED: By handicapped, i do not completely mean from the body, it could be that the social life of a person is handicapped, meaning the person’s life is not growing, it could also be the way a person thinks, the way he or she reacts to his/her current situation or environment, or the way he sees his/herself.
  2. DISABLED: Disabled here has to do with people who lack to the ability to do some certain things fluently or freely because a part of their body is either absent or incapable to function.
    These particular people find it very hard to mingle with society, and this dwindles their self esteem, and as we know it, we are living in a world where nobody cares who they stumble on as long as they get the satisfaction that they need, all these type of treatment make it even harder for people with disabilities to grow their self esteem.
  3. LOW SELF ESTEEM: We definitely for once in our lives have met people who suffer from either of these two issues, as the name implies low self esteem is a disorder in which a person feels very insignificant and utterly unnoticed, and sometimes they end up joining the wrong set of people just to prove that they are also important and the people around them actually use their weakness against them, turning them into puppets or slaves for them, this has a very serious effect on the growth of the person’s self esteem.
  4. HIGH SELF ESTEEM: Some folks might think this is a good thing, and that having high self esteem is such a great thing but it is not, it is as much a disorder as the latter,people who have high self esteem have this fear that everyone wants to run over them and so they build a kind of illusion that they are invisible, so they claim that they can never get hurt.
    It is called high self esteem which is simply a mirage, a pretence but they are the ones that really have the lowest self esteem.

WAYS TO HELP BUILD YOUR SELF ESTEEM

First of all, you have to love yourself, self love equals self worth, a person who loves himself/herself will always treat know how much worth he/she has and also will know how to treat other people, how to interact with people and how much to reserve from people.
To get your self esteem, you must first love yourself!


Authored by @Elizabethscarlet


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These tips are very valuable. Thanks @stach
All the success for you. Regards!

Thank you for reading,happy to know that are helping

Back at it again with some great advice.

🙌🙌,thanks for reading

Just what i needed to know. Great points

Thank you for reading dear,glad i could be of help

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