RE: Promiscuity Over Monogamy – Diving Into Cheating Culture
I swear I look forward to reading your feedback daily now! (You can’t quit now, it has become a habit of mine haha:P)
You put it so brilliantly man, and you’re the opposite of someone full of shit! I’d say you’re full of wisdom!
In regards to the emotional cheating - I absolutely agree with you. Creating a place for open dialogue as you said it is crucial. So much could be avoided if people worked on their ability to be good communicators, as well as good and compassionate listeners.
You got me at “we sometimes put more due diligence into the reviews of where we buy tires for our car.” This is so sad yet so true! Just as often, people will treat strangers with the greatest respect and kindness, and back home, they’ll be the complete opposite with their spouse. This isn’t normal:(
I think to often, on or both sides of the equation of a relationship, thinks they can fix or change the other side. When neither side wants to change or doesn't believe they are broken. It is sobering for a person to find out that their partner believes them to be broken or fixable. It is one think to see potential in someone to the point where they might grow into something. But to often, people engage into some kind of social/interpersonal engineering with their partner to create what they believe they should have from a partner.
Again, I might be full of shit. There is a good possibility.