Moving on from Feeling Stuck #8

in #life6 years ago

"Success is just around the corner"

Who hasn't seen those illustrations. They should give us the motivation to keep at it.

But they are completely wrong

In the real world you can forget about the diamonds in the ground. You will never know when you succeed, but what you can do is making educated predictions based on you own performance whether you will or won't succeed.

Don't be the crazy one that keeps on going fruitlessly on blind faith. You'll end up like the bottom one: old and sad and you can forget about the diamonds, they don't exist.

Know when to change your strategy, change your goals or when to call it quits.

Do the things you love

Would give up the things you love doing?
If you don't enjoy it in the first place and think about quitting, what makes you think you'll like it after you succeed?

Financial gain might make it worth it for a lot of people. In that case, more power to you, but remember the above. Be smart when chasing goals that don't fulfill you on the way.

Start small

Set reachable goals and acknowledge your weaknesses. If you know yourself and what to expect good enough, bad days won't dissuade you. They are part of everything.

Work on your habits, instead of focusing on results. As long as you keep going and love it, goals won't matter that much.

Reflect on the past

See how you have improved. Let that bolster your confidence.
Don't dream of the future as it's ever changing and might always seem unreachable.

Give up

Drop the things that don't offer you anything in return. Things that you once wanted to achieve, but not anymore. Goals which were over-ambitious.


Dirk Laser Master never gave up.

/sulev

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In the beginning there was only darkness

True that!

its a very helpful post for me,
thank you....
thank you so much for share

oh, glad I could be of service. Godspeed!

lovely...you really spoke the truth it was motivational to just what i needed now .thanks for this timely post

Yeah. I drop some truthbombs from time to time. Stick around for more. :)

ok i will stick around cause i love truthtelling it helps my conscience thanks.

It is very good text... I go and read one more time :)
I hope there in Tartu is day cool :)

It's hot and filled with mosquitos and other flies.

Ah :)))) RUN

Cool video........

It's more than just a video. It's a myth, a legend, a hero. It's life itself.

Get a hold of yourself partner. It's, I hate to say this, Make believe. Are you all right? I should have told you to sit down first.

It's not what Dirk said.

There is always times when we are stuck throughout our lives when things change that we can't control. It can be very difficult to move on. Things can feel frozen.

@therealwolf 's created platform smartsteem scammed my post this morning (mothersday) that was supposed to be for an Abused Childrens Charity. Dude literally stole from abused children that don't have mothers ... on mothersday.

https://steemit.com/steemit/@prometheusrisen/beware-of-smartsteem-scam

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