Steps in fostering households in Aceh part 2

in #life6 years ago

steemit friends all over Aceh

continued writing yesterday, about step aceh youth when will release bachelor time, toward small family.

Wedding..

after getting engaged and carrying a sign so, the next step towards the wedding stage.

most of the aceh women's families, more marriage ceremonies are requested along with the walimah (party) event, but there are also the first qabul marriage marriage and some walimah (marriage) days.

marriage and walimah (party) is the last step of aceh youth to foster their household.
for aceh man do not be happy ... before the event of walimah (party) there are things to be met by the groom, but it all depends on the agreement of both families when first asked ..

before the wedding ceremony, aceh youth first prepare various purposes for the peak event.

Betel Plated (Ranup Meususon)

Betel layered into things to be taken during the wedding, in addition to young coconut, sugar cane, banana to complement the shrimp when brought as custom, besides also the aceh cake not left behind with various colors and flavors. .

In addition to betel also brings a brighter, which contains a pair of clothing complete with slippers, cosmetics, ranging from powder to lipstick, all become packages in this enlightenment.

usually in terms of preparing for the brightness, aceh man is not too dizzy to think about the cost, customs in one family, cloth and the device is always filled by close family with the man who will get married.

every family and bridegroom brothers, will race to give the brightness, no doubt a lot of high priced purchased and branded goods.

In addition to brightness, there is also something that is not less important to be prepared by the groom, the contents of the Chamber, but not all family couples request the contents of the Chamber for the groom, it all depends on the agreement from the beginning, sometimes many families who do not ask the contents of the room of the groom .

the contents of the room is not a necessity that should be provided by the groom, because many families are also the bride, do not want to ask for the contents of the room.

but if the agreement mentions there is provided the contents of the room by the groom, then the groom should prepare cabinets, beds, and decorative mirrors, because the three types of goods mentioned with a set of contents of the room ..

After everything is fulfilled, then come at the wedding party

The wedding is done in two places, the habits of the aceh community, the first wedding party in the title "preh linto baro" in the bride, the next day just in the groom's degree, the wedding is also not a must to be met by both parties.

Because not all married couples prepare for a luxurious wedding, not even a little with small events and even no party at all (walimah).

The majority of the people on the veranda of Mecca never ordered men to prepare pasta. even many do not prepare past..

If both families of the bride have a lot of money, then the marriage will be done with luxury, and conversely, if the economy of both families have difficulty, then the event is not done.

After all is done, then it comes when two newlyweds live the day as a small family, who always hopes to be a family sakinah mawaddah, warrahmah ..

So little is my writing about the steps that must be taken by aceh youth when will foster a household with a woman in his love.

This paper has many shortcomings, as well as errors, both in incompatible words, and the forgotten placement of stages. Understand the author also just learned to write for friends steemit,

At the end of this paper, the authors apologize if this article is less pleasing to the readers, the authors also ask for constructive criticism and suggestions, for future authors ...

Finish...................


Thank you for visiting my post Suggested constructive is desirable.

best regards@taufiqq


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