You want others to love you, but LOVE yourself first!

 

Love is a very strong emotion. It can make a mother strong enough to move mountains only to save her baby and a man intelligent enough that he can break all the norms of the society only to be with the one he loves.  

Unfortunately, this feeling of love has been changed with lust in the present age. It is often hard to know that whether a person loves you or he/she is only with for lust or person means. Most of the people are looking for true love. What they do not understand is that they will only find love once they love themselves. 

 Most of the people have a misconception that when a person loves himself he is proud. They should know that loving oneself would make a person more humble and down to earth. You should know that loving yourself is the first step of personal development. 

Here are some of the steps that will help you make love yourself. 

 Pay attention to your diet

 First, you have to eat healthily. It is important that you take care of your health. Just imagine you go to your friend’s house and the first comment you get is how skinny or fat you are. It will show that you do not take care of yourself.   

• When you will start eating healthy you will look beautiful
• People will not pay attention to your weight because they will know you take care of your diet
• When you will take care of yourself no one will get a chance to taunt you. It will improve your self-esteem and you will feel better about yourself 
• You will notice that others will make effort for you to help you stay healthy. It this way you will get appreciation and attention. Remember that a sick person gets sympathy and not love. 

 Stay happy 

One of the most important habits that you have to include in your life is to stay happy. Just remember that quote:

 Smile and make your enemies wonder how! 

It means that when you will be happy despite the situation and circumstance all the people around you will wonder that how you can be so calm. Some will get jealous but most of them will appreciate this quality of yours. In this way when you will have nothing to be stressed about it will change your point of view on life.   

 Help others  

Satisfaction is better than success

 We are working for success but when we find satisfaction is something we forget everything about success. It is important that you help others. When you will see the smiles on their faces it will give you the satisfaction that you will find from nowhere else. Peace of mind is very important. 

 If you are unable to find the love of a partner there is nothing to worry about. When you will love yourself, you will feel complete. It will help you to start a new life in which you will only allow positive people to enter and from there you will truly succeed.  

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V.