Want to grow in life? Confront YOURSELF and stop blaming OTHERS!
It is so easy to blame "them", isn't it? Anything wrong that happens to us or anything wrong that we do, we can always find someone to blame it on, right? It's perhaps the easiest thing to do in life, despite how wrong it may be. We all do it. You, me, everyone else does it.
On the other hand it is so hard to confront "me". Because no one likes to dig deep inside them and confront their own self. No one likes the idea that they can also be wrong.
The easy path of blaming others is the road to ruin. The hard path of confronting yourself is the way of growth. So which one would you choose?
It's also important in some cases not to put all the blame on yourself. This can lead to self hate, self harm and even suicide.
But yeah most people just blame 'them' and take no responsibility at all, then they cannot learn and get stuck in the same cycles.
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