A simple tool to help you solve all of your problems

Today, I would like to share a wonderful tool that can solve all the problems in your life.

question-answer-praise

What is question-answer-praise?

The so-called "question-answer-praise", is when you ask a question, the other party gives you an answer, you must first praise, after praise, then ask the next question.

Because everyone in the chat, want to get the others affirmation and response, so as to help build trust, harmonious relationship.

Remember Rodin's words "Beauty is found everywhere. Our eyes do not show a lack of sense of beauty, but a lack of observation."

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This tool, if used skillfully and properly, you will find that the tool incredibly effective, is a multipurpose tool.

This is a marriage tool.

Husband: What you want to eat tonight? --Ask
Wife: Eat outside. - Answer
Husband: Good, go out and have some elegant taste and enjoy life. --Praise

Husband: What you want to eat tonight? --Ask
Wife: Order takeout. --Answer
Husband: Good, call takeout is fast and convenient, save time. --Praise

Husband: What you want to eat tonight? --Ask
Wife: Not feeling like eating. --Answer
Husband: Good, save energy and protect the environment, healthy and lose weight. --Praise

How do you feel about this type of conversation? What will happen to the relationship between the spouses and the conversation? I tried it, and it worked so well. This is a harmonious relationship between the husband and wife, deal with marital problems, improve the feelings of the husband and wife wonderful prescription.

I even think that as long as this tool is used skillfully in marriage, all marital problems will be solved and the relationship will be very harmonious.

This is a sales tool.

Salesman: What do you want to buy today? --Ask
Customer: I’m looking for a jacket. --Answer
Salesman: Yes, jacket suits you very well. --Praise
Salesman: Where are you going to with this jacket? --Ask
Customer: For mountain climbing. --Answer
Salesman: Wow, mountain climbing, I heard it is quite healthy, I always wanted to go, I really envy you. --Praise
Salesman: When are you going to go? --Ask
Customer: This Saturday. --Answer
Salesman: Oh, that's fast, so let's pick a jacket for you. ----Praise.

This tool can quickly establish trust with the customer, narrow the distance between the customer, so you can quickly agree on the sales.

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This is a teaching child tool.

Many parents often can’t get along with their children because of the way they talk to their children is not appropriate, which leads to tension and difficulty in communicating with them.

This tool also applies to parent-child relationships and it is a wonderful tool for emotional guidance, positive motivation, and confidence-building.

Parent: What did you do at school today?
Child: Take part in the story-telling contest.
Parent: Wow, that's great, it's great to tell a story, it can exercise your ability to express.
Parent: What's your rank?
Child: No prizes, no rankings.
Parents: It doesn't matter, the participation is a courageous performance, your courage is commendable.
Parent: What story are you talking about?
Kid: Ali Baba and 40 thieves.
Parent: This story is very long, if you can tell the story, that’s mean you read a lot and exercise your memory.

How do you feel about this kind of conversational style?
Long-term adherence, parent-child relationship will quickly improve, but also a better education for the children.

This is a multipurpose tool.

The tool can be used in teaching, can be used in the communication, can be used with friends, get along with colleagues, can also be used when chatting with strangers.

In short, this tool can be used in all aspects of life, as long as you develop, you will find that this is a multipurpose tool.

The key point of praise.

1. Be sincere and avoid excessively.
   Do not belittle yourself to praise others, praise with a smile on your face, face each other, exchange eye contacts.

2. Use the right method.
   Find out what the other person is proud of and compliment them, and compliment them on the most sensitive aspect of their class.

The "question-answer-praise" tool is extremely practical, why don't we practice, pick a person you think is difficult to handle, customer, boss, teacher, girlfriend, child, wife ... just a topic, try the tool and see the effect.

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