Do you like yourself?
Confidence is something that I rarely write about. One is because me myself is lack of confidence. Second is I never thought to write about something that I really lack of.
Many people will feel that they are not good enough, of course, those who are very successful, but also only accounted for 5%.
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Perhaps you will often deny yourself, think that you are not good enough, if you always have this idea, you need to adjust your mindset, you must have something to boast about, you have to have to look for success until you succeed. Self-confidence is given to you by yourself, the only thing to do is to find your shining point, and just do it!
We always say that opportunity is reserved for those who are prepared. I remember when I was looking for a job, I will take the initiative to strive for the job opportunities; I often can get the job offer, now in retrospect, is my active attitude, help me get this opportunity.
There must be several opportunities in each person's life, when the opportunity comes knocking at your door, you must not wait until you cultivate a good self-confidence, but you must dare to challenge yourself, grab the opportunity and cultivate your ability. Only by bearing the surrounding pressure, you can achieve greater progress.
Self-confidence is the definition of self-affirmation, not how much ability you have now, self-confidence is the first key to success!
So where exactly is self-confidence coming from?
One is from others, one from yourself, but you don't have to wait for others to give you confidence, you can improve your self-confidence.
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4 ways to boost your self-confidence
1. Strengthen your strengths and improve your weaknesses
If you keep saying to yourself you can't, you won't, you don’t, how can you cultivate self-confidence; so change your mindset first.
Everyone is good for something; you sure have some strength that other people don’t have. Find it and amplify your strength. Your shortcomings will naturally shrink, do things that you like and good at so that you will improve a little bit day after day.
2. Just do it!
You don't have to be good to start but you need to be good after you start, so that you'll learn everything.
Do not deny yourself before you do anything; then you will lose the momentum to start.
Who doesn't know anything from nothing?
We really only need to start to become good, don't be afraid to try, because only after trying, we will know what we don’t understand.
3. Keep away from the complaining circle, get into positive circle
Your success comes from the seven friends who are most often around you, if your circle of friends is not good enough, please open up a new circle of society.
4. Motivate yourself
I like to watch badminton games, whenever these top badminton players morale are low, once they hit a good shot, they will clinch their fists and shout, cheer for themselves, motivate themselves, this often can turn the game around.
The power of language is very huge, always tell yourself you will try your best, what you don’t know, you will learn, what you worry about, you would like to try.
Believe in yourself; you are the best!
Don't think too much about it; sometimes you have to take the first step to know which direction you want to go.
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