Have you ever found yourself in a song?
Sometimes it’s not that we understand a song, but when we listen to a song, we will think of someone. This person can be a friend who has loved for a long time, can also be a stranger you just met, or perhaps a person that you can’t forget.
Human is strange, when you fall into an emotion, no matter what song you’re hearing, it’s like the song is about you. Whether it is your love, or an unforgettable person, or a certain memory, we can resonate in a certain song.
Maybe some things did happen and there is no way to change. The people we missed, the thing we did wrong, still can be found in the music. Music is more like a medicine, sometimes it is an antidote that can make you feel happy; but when you get into an emotion, you repeatedly desire to find answers in a song, and music becomes poison at this time.
In fact, whether the music is the antidote or poison, it depends on the mood of the person who is listening to the music. If you want freedom, you might go for rock and roll, if you like love songs maybe because you have not been able to get out from break up.
We will always try to find the answer in the music, but forget that we already know the answer long ago.
We might find ourselves in a song. Maybe you'll feel like you've put something down or forgotten someone, and some songs will remind you of him/her. Especially some of the songs that sound very sad, the lyrics are also about the love story. We are all able to quickly find a sense of the person, perhaps a song of certain lyrics will impress you, as the key to open the mysterious treasure.
The next second, memories will come as surging as the tide, but we never have a reason to look back. Some of the thing you thought you could have forgotten, but in the end, you are just lying to yourself, that person or something is always in the bottom of your heart, has never forgotten.
At the end of the day, we still look for ourselves in a song, whether the song is happy or sad, helpless or emotional. When we hear a song, our state of mind will become like this. Lovelorn when listen to any song will feel sad; listen to sweet songs will think of the happy memories, listen to sad love song will think the moments with you break up, no chance to be together, the heart will feel even sadder.
You want to be able to find some solace in a song, and in a song's comments are people who have the same experience as you, and you may feel a little better, at least you know you are not alone in this situation.
What we're listening to is not really that song, it's the familiar self in that song.
You will think of someone who believes that there are a lot of people who still like to listen to music, whether it is pop music or other kinds of music, sometimes seeing the music we like, we will happily share it. In fact, what we want, is to find some resonance, and believe that those who are in a relationship will have this experience.
Some couples will share a song with each other before going to bed. Knowing that two people in love are independent of each other, have their own different preferences, this method is able to help understand each other.
For those who are not in a relationship, seeing the girl/boy you liked shared a song, presumably you will try to understand the song with great curiosity. After all, this can help you get closer to that person's soul. By the time you get to know each other's favorite music, whether you can be together or not, when you hear a song, you'll think of that person.
This the chemical reaction produced by a song between two people. It was originally a very ordinary song, after the understanding of both sides, the song will be special to that person. Because from this song, you can find a shadow that belongs to this person, as if this person represents this song. Of course, everything is your own fantasy of music, and it is because of the connection with someone, that song becomes meaningful.
When you have a connection with that person, the song is not just a song, but a memory you've been through together.
Don't get caught up in a sad mood that you can miss a person through a song, it's no big deal. It is also only a song in the end, even if you have a very strong resonance, it still cannot change any facts. The person who leaves will still leave, the person that stay will still stay.
Even if this song is about the memories between you, but the memory will eventually pass, people can not live in memories for the rest of our lives. We can miss someone or something, but we can’t fall into the memory, although memories are beautiful, but the bumps and setbacks you have experienced are also there.
To be honest, even if you can experience what happened before, can you guarantee that in the end, it will go towards the direction you want?
The song does not represent a person, there is no need to keep holding that part of the memory, and it won’t give you the desired echo.
Will you think of someone because of a song?
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