Nothing is worse than giving up yourself
I have a cousin who addicted to gambling, no matter how others advise her, she still addicted to gambling.
Every time when the relatives give her advice, she always feels annoyed, even furious, the result is in discord.
Watching her continue to sink and swim in the gamble, everyone feels angry, wasting life, and unkind to her.
Everyone is busy with their own lives, children's education and further studies, the stability and development of personal career, and so on.
We are all pushed away by life.
However, the addiction is really difficult to get rid, especially more than 10 years of gambling, a touch on it will be difficult to escape. Although the world is difficult to turn to each other, but the crux of the problem lies in the personal will.
But how much determination you willing to put in to get rid of it?
I remembered one of my neighbors, was once addicted to gambling for her life and had lost her mind.
But her husband could not see her jumping into the fire pit day by day, and the child was still young and needed to be nurtured.
In the end, she was sent to work as a labor at outskirt for more than 10 years.
I heard that gambling is like a drug, there is always an addiction in the heart and the body constantly tossing, it seems to devour you, and then tore you into pieces.
During that time, I believed she is in her worst days in her life. However, for not giving up herself t, she reaped a new self.
Now, she was surrounded with her grandsons and occasionally went traveling.
It is said that it is more difficult to ascend because you are moving forward, and with each step forward, the gravitational potential energy is getting stronger.
In order to keep the state of constant speed, you need to spend more effort than walking on the flat road, so as to overcome the resistance and gravitational potential energy of the foot and keep the state of progress.
Everyone wants to progress, especially those at the bottom of life, they face more survival problems and feel the resistance of life.
They need to feed their families, parents are getting older and children are starving, which is an inescapable responsibility.
Every day fighting for survival, they can’t give up at any moments.
Low wages and difficult work are not going to stop them from doing their job.
Although the ideal has already been replaced by the daily necessities of life, but to live a good day is everyone's basic pursuit.
Just that someone is walking, but trapped in situ, stagnant, do not know the way forward.
To break through the shackles of life, only breaking oneself from the inside, from the heart, can get a new energy.
Sometimes, we work day after day, although it seems like we are working hard, but we do not have a substantial improvement in our lives.
It just seems like we are working hard, most of it is a slavish imitation, and there is no long-term goal to give perseverance strength.
Of course, we need to do our best to maintain our basic state of life.
Confined to the status quo, but the heart is unwilling to break free from the cage, what can we do?
Every day, most people are living mechanically, work and life, busy the whole day.
In fact, if we only willingly embrace into our life, no matter what the situation, your enthusiasm will always beyond the life, it is beyond doubt.
"Give up" means that you have already disarmed before the war. When facing difficulties, what worse than scare by the difficulties is not dare to get into the war.
Comparing to the unknown future, I am more afraid of a see-through reality and the invariable life trajectory.
Give up the present life, put into an unknown world, after all, you are not young anymore, do you still have the courage?
Some people said that “After a few years of work, when friends are busy changing jobs, I have let my dream shine into reality, living my favorite life.”
I do not know how they bridge the reality and dream together, but I am convinced that they always remember their dream, find a gap in life to place the dream.
There is no doubt that the motivation post can be used to supplement our missing spiritual nutrition, but everyone needs different nutrients.
Forced motivation is ineffective and may also backfire.
To know oneself is always a spiral forward journey, because we are changing every day, encounter different experience, complacent is tantamount to self-destruction.
Perhaps, pain is the embodiment of the real existence of our life, only after pain, we only know the sweetness of the precious. But, being human, we must know why it hurts. Why do we suffer?
Otherwise, we can not feel the sweetness behind the pain.
Just like at present, I really can't break through the immediate dilemma, direct to the real idea deep in my heart.
So, I again limited to a confused state, also tried to stocking myself for a period of time, doing nothing.
I thought that the situation will improve, in fact, no, I became more anxious and uneasy.
The mist in front of you is like a coagulation, just a little more lingering, blocking the pace of progress.
Continue to indulge myself, give up the right to change the current situation, let the mood overflow or upstream, step by step maneuvers, until out of trouble?
When the mind calmed down, the inner voice is firm and powerful, escape and give up is always the most foolish practice, that will only let oneself fall into the abyss.
When you give up your efforts, it is tantamount to giving up your whole world.
In any case, you have to stick to live, all efforts that you pay to move upward is worthy of commendation!
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