Control your heart not to hate someone who has betrayed and hurt you
Control your heart not to hate someone who has betrayed and hurt you, because no matter how bad you treat you, you should be grateful.
Why? Because of him you know which person is good for you, which person really is right for you, and which person really deserves your sincere love.
You must remember one thing, that it is better to hurt now than to be hurt after a long time with him.
It is painful to reduce when it is evident to be one in the bond of marriage.
Because it's better to choose now rather than choosing later after marriage. Because, the relationship that has been bound in the sacred bond of marriage should not just stay live if you know the shortcomings.
Need to be patient-patient, need to be sincere, need to subdue the ego, and need a wide heart to forgive each other's mistakes.
Well, that is very true, because choosing the couple to be wrong is not only a day or two, but a lifetime.
So grateful even though your mind is very hurt now, because after all God has saved you from someone who is not as good as himself.
And about your mistakes you don't need to remember, forgive and sincerity, let God fully give rewards for what he has done for you.
Don't be sad anymore because you remember all the bad things that happened because of inappropriate behavior. Believe that along with the incident God has been provided a better and more sincere change from him.
Believe me, that later there will be someone who is more worthy of your love and affection, who is able to keep you loyal with full responsibility.
Nice post @ahmadhidayatu. Every relationship come with its own challenges and uniqueness whether good or bad and it is the experience we gathered that help us to improve in becoming a better person to be love. Am happy you are of the opinion that we should control our heart not to hate those who betray and hurt us. Believe me hatred is a dangerous thing, it can make one to miss all the good lesson from a broken relationship.
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