7 emotional wounds of childhood that last when we are adults...

Hello babies, today I bring something quite interesting to read... Self-esteem.

The emotional wounds we suffer in childhood can be dragged along in life, even in the stages of adulthood, so it is so necessary to learn how to detoxify all these negative emotions, to begin to heal from within.

I hope that the moment you finish reading this you feel better and you know that everything can improve with love and more love...

I hope to help.

Fear of abandonment, a prison in the heart:

This emotional wound of the past, has its origin when the mother, or the caretaker of a child, can not, or does not want, respond as a protective figure against the fears that the little one experiences.

are small left by third parties or left alone for long periods, or simply children of mothers or fathers who, for personal reasons, do not want to respond adequately to the demands of company and attention that children require.

Violence, an inner chaos:

Culturally, we have been taught that hitting children is an acceptable behavior, however, there are many studies that speak to us otherwise.

Hit teaching children how to solve conflicts with violence, not to adequately manage their outbursts of anger, to resolve their family disputes by way of the 'law of the strong'.

These sequelae and emotional wounds of children, will be carried into adulthood and will affect, generating abusive husbands and wives.

Rejection, a mirror desolate:

There are parents who reject their children for a variety of reasons; arrived at an inappropriate time, is the product of an oversight, it is exactly equal to his dad, etc..

The constant rejection toward our son is going to generate a process of self-rejection. This emotional wound of the past in the adult stage will have an impact with the feeling that never, no matter what may be "sufficient" in life, at work, in their studies and even in love, these individuals will prefer to stay alone and isolated.

The injustice, a soul impotent.

From a very early age, children have the ability to assess whether a situation in which they are involved, it is fair or unfair, or if on the contrary you receive equal treatment, and for those who have several children this is a matter of great importance.

To live in an environment that has been totally unfair, this ends up damaging the "i", conveying the idea that they are not worthy of the attention of others.
An adult who has suffered from this emotional wound, then you can become an insecure person or, on the contrary, someone cynical that has a pessimistic outlook on life. This person will have problems to trust others and establish relationships, because unconsciously thinks that all will treat you badly.

The betrayal, broken promises, a terrifying world:

tomorrow i will take you to sign up for you to learn to dance, if you behave I'll buy that car you saw the other day.

Sometimes parents are a promising, we promise and not fulfill the promises, but this creates a trauma in children, an emotional wound, is teaching that the world and the people nearby are not reliable, and as an adult he will have a personality celopata, fearful and insecure.

The humiliation, a spirit hurt:

Today more than ever, we see this phenomenon, each day there are more children who grow up in environments that are humiliating, bullying is one of them, the children who are constantly subjected to humiliating situations, teasing, and disqualification, whether at school or at home.

Growing up with a great tendency to depression and low self-esteem. Surely we will all remember any humiliating situation in childhood, just remember to understand what can be this emotional trauma of childhood and how it ends up being a burden that we carry in adult life.

Fear of the unknown, a boat without a port:

Many parents we encourage our children to lose the fear of the dark or unknown places, or underestimate their fears by saying that they are not cowards, afraid of the water, etc.

Children require a bit of patience, and immersion in unknown environments will only generate individuals insecure, with fear of change, and resistant to the difference.

Live, with the soul clinging to a sweet remembrance, who wept again… the memories of childhood marked the rest of our lives, attentive dear parents.

That was all for today. Kisses Friends
The site that helped me with this : http://viveensalud-hogar.com/uncategorized/7-heridas-emocionales-la-infancia-perduran-cuando-somos-adultos/.