Prepare for a special night
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The end of week, wash, cooks, cleans, the husband watching football, thank God he does not go out to the street, he stays at home resting!, helping the kids to do the homework, fix the room ...
Come one day! and an idea occurs to them.
And they decide that they need a special night as it was before, and as mother thought first of the chamos and we say; What unconscious, does not love children, but then we think, hey, he's right, it's not a bad idea, we're in monotony, almost living by inertia, poor husband and you ask yourself thousands of questions will he have another? That needs more attention !, I'm neglecting it ..., the imagination starts to fly. And you decide to make it real, and trying to get anxious preparation for that day.
Many of us see it as taboo, especially women, we are more reserved and we also reserve the magical moment of that night, we are excited in love and excited, encouraging that love, we leave it somewhere in the background, buying infinities of costumes, to parade them with excitement to the stimulus of a magical night, looking for places to buy and thought of ideas in which we put our imagination to fly, to keep our love active and to wrap ourselves in the magic of that night.
Not all of us think about decorating first and tell me if I'm wrong, first we think about what we'll wear that day, after buying intimate clothes, and then everything we're going to decorate, ahh! The room should be beautiful that if the candles, the tub, the glasses, the flowers, do not miss the bottle of very important wine, for the stimulus of relaxation, ahhh! And what are we going to have dinner? in the case that we stay at home, of course, we stay at home, so we save a little, it has to be something quick that does not take long for it to give time to decorate, of course without saying anything to him husband.
God how could I forget and what will I do with the children, we think fast, of course for the grandmother's house, or I take them a the aunt ..., I have to make them dinner first, to take them, to eat, because if they do not eat the food they are going to prepare, the pajamas, the toys so they do not get bored and it is very important that they are not calling that night.
We women, we have to do things that make us feel good, keep our minds calm, we buy the flowers, we put them in the fridge so they do not wilt, the candles we buy that they do not see them, we finally managed to not to tell about what we are preparing, we send the husband to take the children and buy the bottle of wine to try to take a little, so that we have time to decorate everything and everything is beautiful for that special night.
Does the husband leave with the children and ask? Mommy because we go to grandma's house or aunt's house, where they go ... They ask thousands of questions and you think, think, that you will answer them, oh quick I invent to say because they are capable and they tell you I go with you, ah, it occurs to them and you tell them; Let's go to a meeting, if to a meeting! of adults and can not go.
At last they come out !, and you tell them; we go quickly to prepare everything, so that everything is beautiful for that special night.
At last that night everything arrives arranged, pending call to the husband. Where does it come from? And you say Yupiii! Yes, I have time to wait for it, with everything you planned for that special night.
The moment finally arrives, enjoy it to the fullest as it was the last night you spent with him, make yourself laugh, interact, and most importantly, use your imagination and make that special meeting that you had not had after so much time, wrap that love in the total magic of love.
After the meeting, and after the big night planned, everything went perfect, you said it was worth it as we will do it more often; talking, we decided to do it once a month and the husband says nooo ... every week, hahaha ... Health.
My dear friends, Mamis, I advise you;
• Let's not leave our love, for a second plane remember that children grow, then get married and make their lives.
• Get out of the routine.
• Go out alone, even once a month.
• Go to the movies, share with friends.
• Go out to dance.
• Keep that love alive between both of us, and so that our spouses do not forget us, so that I never reached that moment when we were alone or God allowed it. So keep that flame that never goes out, and as the father says when he marries us until death I separated them.
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