Falling in Love

Hi stemian, Today I am writing an article for stemian friends who are "Falling in Love" and hope your love relationship all succeed.

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"When you are attracted to a person, the whole body seems to shake, heart beat harder, cold sweat out, and heart feel happy all the time. That is why we often hear the term" Falling in Love.

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Although it seems to be happening spontaneously, it is not a coincidence that falling in love. The human body has indeed been designed to accept the first impression that takes place in just a few seconds, but it can generate interest. What is it that influences it?

VOICE

Intonation, speech, and dialect are very influential in shaping our perception of a person. People who speak quickly are usually considered highly educated, while those who speak slowly with varying intonations are considered more attractive. Generally men like women with high voices, while women like men who sound deep. The tone of voice is not related to height, but is closely related to hormone levels. This means, the tone of voice determines the fertility and health of a person "generally people who have a good voice face is also interesting."

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CHARISMA

Charisma can be likened to a light that illuminates the room and attracts the opposite sex to get closer to it. People who have charisma, like Oprah Winfrey, the famous talkshow queen from America, have high self-esteem. A charismatic person will make us feel comfortable around him. Their secret is actually very simple, that is, the ability to adjust to trying to concentrate, adjust, speed of speech and even the speed of a high heart rate, through eye contact, touch, or simply make a good relationship. The researchers believe that our perception of attraction will awaken in the first minute we get acquainted, a real physiological reaction. This interest is more like an electric shock. but also often equated with chemical processes (chemistry)

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BODY POSTURE

Sincere smile and proper posture are important elements that can create attraction. We capture the first impression through facial expressions, handshakes, and posture, long before paying attention to the appearance and style of dress. Those who are relaxed and self-assured look more attractive because it will make the person who sees them feel comfortable. This may happen because we perceive the behavior of others with a mirror in the brain. Like looking in a mirror, we will have the same feelings as the objects we see. To be acquainted with confidence, I suggest thinking about remembering moments when you are comfortable with yourself, then storing those memories in your brain. The easiest way to create a good first impression is to show attention, because everyone likes to be noticed. Also keep eye contact, speak with open palms, and nod at the right moments. All of that will build a stunning first impression.

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HUMOR

Humor is very effective to melt the atmosphere. Everyone loves people who have a high sense of humor. However, the views of men and women on different tastes of humor. According to a study, men with a high sense of humor is considered more sexy, also implies intelligence and creativity. Meanwhile, men consider the appreciation of humor from the woman as an indication of sexual acceptance. Women, who are more selective in choosing a date, are more selective about humor. Brain results show that women process humor more deeply and respond only to humor that they find funny, as well as openly reject the humor that is considered 'taboo'. Therefore, before you make a humor it is important to know if the place, time, and phrase you are going to say is right. Humor can not be taken lightly because research shows that humor influences the happiness of marriage.

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REPUTATION

Your reputation shapes people's opinions about you before they get to know you. It is on this reputation that others decide whether they can trust you or not. If yes, they will approach you, but if they catch a few bad signs, they will stay away from you. Basically, people like those who are considered interesting by others. Perhaps you suspect this is because you associate with it, your status in the eyes of others will also increase. Apparently not only that the reason. According to a study, this is useful as a shortcut to find a mate. Scientists call it a follow-on phenomenon. That is, if a woman considers a man attractive, then other women will certainly be interested in the man. Your reputation shapes people's opinions about you before they get to know you. It is on this reputation that others decide whether they can trust you or not. If yes, they will approach you, but if they catch a few bad signs, they will stay away from you. Basically, people like those who are considered interesting by others. Perhaps you suspect this is because you associate with it, your status in the eyes of others will also increase. Apparently not only that the reason. According to a study, this is useful as a shortcut to find a mate. Scientists call it a follow-on phenomenon. That is, if a woman considers a man attractive, then other women will certainly be interested in the man. This will certainly facilitate the process of choosing a spouse who really takes a lot of time and energy.

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MOOD

Most people think that people with extroverted personality are more attractive than those who are introverts. But this is not entirely true. According to the researchers, the mood turned out to play a greater role in the process of attracting the opposite sex. Mood will affect your perception of others, especially when new acquaintances. That is, when your mood is negative, you may be less sensitive to the onverbal signs that others show. This will slow you down in making decisions, making you too careful in the end you fail to receive the first impression accurately. This is also true in building relationships with someone who hopes to become a future partner. If the person you like is down, whatever you do to attract it, it will not work.

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CLASSIFICATION OF SOCIAL CLASS.

We tend to be attracted to people from the same social class as us because we feel they will appreciate our values, opinions, and life choices, and like the same things. The relationship between two people from an equal social class has a greater chance of success. Maybe you remember the movie Pretty Woman, where a wealthy successful businessman fell in love with a Prostitute. The story of their romance ended happily. But in reality that's hard, because the way a person does hair and nails, and the way she dresses is very difficult to separate from the natural attraction they already have.

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Basically, the law of attraction applies like a mirror. We are attracted to people when we like their views on ourselves. We like someone who sees us in accordance with the image we really want to show that gives us the widest space to be ourselves.

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