How do you know if you are ready to live with your partner?

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WOW with this question I can extend a lot!!!!

When we are younger and we have our partner we think about how our life together would be living in the same house, but at that age we are not mature enough or we are not prepared for what remains in a simple thought and although you do not believe it, it is VERY COMMON!

I'll leave you some signs that you can know you're ready to live as a couple

1)    You trust your partner and respect your partner, this is THE MOST IMPORTANT thing in the relationship, because as long as there is trust and respect, the coexistence will be extraordinary

2)    You already know what all their faults are and accept them, in fact you have already learned to live with them day by day of the relationship; Likewise, your partner knows all their faults and accepts them also, the important thing is that both know that nobody is perfect, but that with the right communication they will be able to coexist very well

3)    Between the two there is so much confidence, that there is no disgust or grief, and both understood that they are human, with needs and that they are not perfect, there is no longer any pain when it comes to expressing oneself, doing something, among other things . When this is accomplished in the relationship, it’s a breakthrough that will help them feel that they live with your ideal partner.

4)    You and your partner have already shared weekends together, have slept together for days, and have managed to get along. In fact, when you achieve this, you will feel that desire not to want to separate yourself from him or her, and you will not want to sleep alone again.

5)    Another thing VERY IMPORTANT, is that you can talk about MONEY together without feeling uncomfortable and without problems. When a couple manages to communicate, say how much money each one has, what they main expenses are, what you should save, when you SHARE THE EXPENSES, and it starts to be all the same, you can be very sure that you can live with that person because you already have a financial organization that will help you in the future.

6)   That person is always present in your plans, whether it's a family reunion, a trip, a vacation, a party with friends, and even a night of watching movies on netflix, as you always want to share time and your experiences with your partner

7)    That person is the first person you call when something important happens in your life. If it's a good thing your partner will be the first to get excited about your achievements and will always want you to succeed ... if it's a bad thing, he will be there to lend your support and even dry your tears if necessary, remember your partner should be your best friend.

8)   You can’t imagine your single life, since you can’t see your life without your partner by your side In fact you can imagine yourself marrying that person.

9)   Your partner knows you more than yourself, knows your insecurities, your complexes and your problems, and is not scared, on the contrary, supports you and helps you work on those weaknesses so that you feel safe and can strengthen your relationship

10) your family love and supports that person; even if your family doesn’t have the decision, that they get along well and have a good relationship is something rewarding

11) And last but not least, the issue of living together interests both equally, both always talk about that issue and imagine what life would be like together, in addition to planning a future and a plan to have a secure future .

Both must be sure of the couple they are with and sure of their relationship, they must work day by day to be able to fulfill their desire to live together having the best coexistence, and always following a good plan with a lot of communication and respect ...

I hope you serve my answer, greetings!