GIVE HER AN HELPING HAND

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For ages and in our world today, especially in african marriages, it is widely believed that domestic activities like cooking, doing the laundry, taking care of the kids, home chores and so on, are meant for the females alone, except for those who hire a maid or steward, but are these things really meant for the females alone?!!

And it's even quite intense and sad that even while some of these women are in their period of pregnancy, some or most of their husbands still expect them to do all these activities even after returning from their individual jobs, and though these females could be very exhausted, they still try their best possible to take care of their home and ensure everything goes well at the house

Though most men feel it's abominable to do some chores at the house even down to the minute of them all, but the truth is, it only takes a man who truly understands the meaning of "Love" to always assist his partner/wife.

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Love goes beyond mere words, and according to a popular saying "Action speaks louder than words", and if you claim to love her so much, alongside other ways you could be showing this Love, also learn to assist her domestically in your down time, and instances where one could also have a maid /steward, your wife/partner will still want to do some of these chores herself, so it's better to be there at times to either assist or keep her company. And this not only makes her happy but also strengthens the bond in your relationship.

In Conclusion

Women are meant to be loved, cared for and also taken care of, your lady or wife, is just there to bare you a kid(s), or to do all the house chores(if you don't have a maid/butler), your woman is your partner.

And even though she currently has no job but to take care of the kid(s) at home, still show her you appreciate by not just taking her out, treating her to a nice dinner or giving her gift, also try to be of assistance to her domestically, even mostly when she's pregnant of a baby as well, she needs you the most, it sure goes a long way in her heart.