Playing Chess With Pigeons - An Important Lesson For You Don't Lose Your Precious Time With People With Specific Characteristics Simple For Us Identify ....
In this post I would like to share with you how I have learned along my journey not to waste time with people who, besides not adding anything to your life, will still make you angry and it is a great waste of time and our time is very valuable to waste with these kind of people, but I'll do this by leaving a little humor in the end so you can laugh.
We have all met thousands of people who have passed through a period in our lives or people that we have simply talked to a few times and realize that they are difficult people to listen to others.
They are inflexible people who do not know how to establish a healthy dialogue, it is as if they are completely deaf, you talk to them but they do not listen are like true aberrations of nature.
I can bet you're already remembering too many times that you've wasted time with people like that and the result was that you just wasted your time, just got nervous and gradually you understood that you would not waste any more time on them and you went away pulling away until they no longer want to talk to them.
What I am writing may seem normal but I see people daily losing their time with such people's nonsense.
The message I would like to share here is precisely for you to stay tuned in your daily life and to quickly identify if you are making this mistake because it is directly interconnected to what I have written about managing and optimizing your time better not to lose the focus of your goals.
Please accept that it hurts less because we can not change the world but what we can do is add us to people who know how to listen with respect and be positive. You should get away as fast as possible from negative, envious, dishonest people among other awful attributes and quirks like these.
If you find yourself in a situation like this I suggest that as of today you automatically start rescheduling your Mindset to think about your goals and your mind will quickly respond that you are wasting time, and your Mindset will be ready for you get back to focus whenever something is consuming your energies for no purpose beneficial to you. Believe me, practice and be alert to this every day and you will see how it works and you will have an incredible sense of well-being when you realize that you are reprogramming your Mindset for your growth.
To finish as I promised at the beginning and I'll leave a small quote from an artist that I know, and he defines this type of people in a funny way but you must take it seriously despite being funny.
He says:
"When you have a quarrel with a person of this type it's the same as you play chess with a pigeon because he'll knock down all the pieces of the board, the pigeon will still spread shit and on every board and yet will come out with the chest stewed like if he were the master of reason "
I hope that despite the fun you do not waste any more time with pigeons!
Remembering: I want to see this community with meaningful comments getting 80 upvotes. What I am doing you will hardly see in steemit, I vote on all the significant comments from you and I know you are understanding how we can build a community with engagement and generosity with positive Mindset always.
I would like to make a request to all of you. Please, if you commented on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
My goal is to see you all with 80 upvotes and for this we need to bring more people with positive Mindset to this blog and this you can by inviting people who follow you on your blogs and making a subtract of all posts.
You all know the goal we can reach.
The question is: Who is with me in this endeavor?
BIG HUG FOR YOU THAT IS WITH ME AND WITH EVERYONE HERE!
Regards
It has happened to me a lot ... a relative who is very negative and also stubborn ... of those who show him that the sky is blue ... but for him the sky is black and there is no way to accept that the sky It's blue, even if you prove it scientifically ... I remembered that person a lot, reading your publication jajaja......
LOL! Perfect
This post has received a 20.00% upvote from @jmiller05!
@chbartist, Yes, in life we face these kind of situations where we waste our energy unnecessarily and it was not required. And for sure our Innerself is great teacher and guidance and it will going to guide us time to time about our Beneficial aspects through vibrations so, when we get to know that we are wasting our time on someone or something then we should stop it and we should focus towards other aspects where we receive Positive Vibes.
Wishing you an great day and stay blessed. 🙂
Thank you friend! Great comment!
Welcome and thank you so much. Have a great time ahead. 🙂
But what if these people are your family members? You still need to talk to them and share with them the positive vibes in hopes that one day they will also do the same.
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Hi vincy,
No matter how close the person is to you, and they see that you are genuine about it, and really meant it,
they would adjust.
Make them understand that some privileges you grant to them can be taken away if they don't adjust
Regards
Easier said than done but thanks for the thoughts.
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Exactly! friend
In other words like its in the cheese game you have to Find ways how to solve and get a solution to overcome them thus through moving in through different area for help.and at the end you will end up conquering you challenge.
Exactly friend! Welcome
I understand what you mean but unfortunately my experience has shown that there is a time for us to change the mindset of these people, but as I said unfortunately it is the minority of the people that we have succeeded. I also understand that a lot of these people are familiar but you have to know how to set your limit. You can not allow your life to pass and instead of taking care of yourself you end up going to the hole with the person. But each one is free to establish this time and give a stop.
You are so correct! Family sometimes provide the tallest hurdles as we sometimes believe they are entitled to demand more from us. I learned early on in my life, both personal and professional, that it is best to steer your own path as you cannot help if you don't put yourself in a position to succeed.
I was going to ask the same, hahaha .... and if they are family ?? !!!
What an excellent article! You know my friend there are seven colours in rainbow, we are social being, we live in society and have to maintain the norms, we have to live with these various types of people, keeping in mind my own target I have to go ahead leaving them behind as you said we can't make the world change. Have a big hug for your constructive writing.
@rafique1953, Always your comments be great! Thank you! You really have the Positive Mindset. Regards
Understanding people's temperaments and personality help us to deal with others.
We cannot go along with everyone because of personality differences. There's so-called personality chemistry which explains that we cannot go along with everyone.
We stand with our own principles and convictions. Everyone has its own position.
The point of this blog post is that you should choose whom you will spend your time and energy. Not because you hate them, but they just have another path to travel on the road of life.
Exactly!
It's true. I know of a person who likes to ask for advice but would never take it. It's almost like the person just wants to know what your opinion is and then go ahead and do what they've always wanted. Really annoying.
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Thank you for your comment!
Sir, your post is always inspirational and I will try to help you achieve this goal.
Thank you! Regards
@chartist sir!
The use of time forwards to the person's trail on the path of success. We should avoid arguing with such individuals who do not add some in our lives, but we will waste our time. We have good bad experience in our lives, we are in the past. There are like a pigeon in our lives that spoil the game because they are distorted . Your thoughts always be motivated and based on good concept.regards
Great! regards @certain
People, struggle to realise, they are worthy of good things, and they need to learn, to refuse to accept, anything less, than they are worth. I boot out, bad people like this, I make no exceptions, family, and friends, are treated exactly the same. I respect myself, and do not tolerate bad treatment from anyone. I also upvoted you, chbartist. :)
Thanks!