Mindset II.
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Whatever you call forth is coming. A lot of people need to understand this. Your words are powerful and you don’t call things you don’t want into your life. Do you want to experience a better life? Do you want to feel things differently? Do you want to have another experience from the norms? Speak it because whatever you call forth is coming.
If you see marriage as a small handcuff that deprives you of everything, then I need to ask you what your motive is in the first place. Depriving you the ability to sleep with other ladies? Then why get married when you know you are not ready? This is why you shouldn’t be rushed into decisions that can alter the course of your life. Marriage shouldn’t be hell on earth. What you give it is what you see, and this is why you also need to deal with an understanding partner.
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If your partner would frown at just seeing you take a picture with an old friend, without any questionable pose, and then I feel I need to question your own intention first, since your partner must have seen some traces with you before he or she can draw that conclusion. Why won’t your partner know this old friend in the first place? Except the person is an ex-fling?
We need to see things differently from the norms if we are not to repeat the mistakes of others. We are to learn from their mistakes and not necessarily repeat their experiences. When you start seeing marriage as a small handcuff, trust me, you will repeat that experiences, because what you have believed in will determine how you will overcome the challenges that lie ahead. What do you believe in? Is it what you would like exported into your future? If no, then start viewing or seeing things differently.
If you feel life is hard, that is the aspect of life that will be exposed to you. If you feel life is all about enjoyment; that is exactly what your consciousness will draw to you and what you will see in every situation. If you feel life is about a business that is how you will approach it. If you feel life is about helping, your subconscious responds. What you think matters in everything.
Change your thought to what you wish to see. Your reality is your choice since you are responsible for what you get. We are sometimes very quick to focus on the negative; if only we can use the same energy and convictions to view things differently.
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The singular idea that marriage or the band (ring) is a hand cuff is the unfortunate reason some folks cant leave their old lives even after marriage. What you think and feed your heart and mind is very important and builds or create to a large extent a level of positivity or negativity that goes a long way in affecting the kind of life we end up living.
Boss i tell you, i couldn't have agreed any less with your stance, reply and view to this beautiful post. Thanks for sharing sir. This is very useful. Cheers.
You spoke my mind and I am glad we shared the same view. I am also glad i didn't keep quiet when he said it, it would have given a clear idea that I bought into that view. Silence sometimes mean consent. We have to speak what we want to see. Glad you shared this too.
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Yes! I perfectly agree with your not keeping silence. As muh as he would havve also learnt differently, am sure he would have also seemingly hidden his Face in some sought of "shame " reason been that some folks always wanna redicle other with some percieved view point of their all as a result of their porous mindset. Obviously from hence he will know you otherwise. Thanks sir.
Absolutely. Thanks for this.
Well said love. Thanks for this
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Hello, being positive and transmitting sincerity are key to our prosperity. Let's visualize what we want to achieve and focus on achieving it ... Good post, I congratulate you. I vote for you
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