The Reason You Are Needy

Have you ever felt the vibe was off in an interaction?

It was one of those situations where all the right words were being said, but the energy felt off?

Something about the other person was a tad bit inauthentic, but you couldn't put the finger on it.

In many cases, other people may be thinking this about you.

I know why the vibration is off.

It's because there is neediness in the air.

Desperation is seeping out & disrupting the natural flow of the interaction.

Tsk tsk.

Neediness = Social Sin

But where does neediness stem from?

How come some people have this aura of desperation while others have an armor of self confidence.?

It's because of a few things...

The first reason is that we are needy by birth.

Think about it.

We are born onto this planet crying, needing adults to feed us, give us attention etc.

A baby is a dependable creature.

A child is a dependent creature.

A young adult is a dependent creature.

An adult is....?

Well, that depends on you & the lifestyle you have chosen.

Although you have been dependent on an authority while growing up, you are eventually met with a fork in the road.

Do you want to continue being dependent OR do you want to take the road less traveled?

The journey towards independence.

A lot of people opt for dependence.

It's the easy thing to do. Requires no work.

And what they are dependent on is indicative on the persons life.

Some are dependent on the government. This leads them to excessively whine about handouts.

Some are overly dependent on their parents. This leads them to go to mom & dad whenever there is small problem.

Some are dependent on social interactions. This leads them to come off as desperate when around people.

No matter which category you fall in, dependent people all have 1 major thing in common.

They lack a mission.

The mission is the north star in your life which allows you to take the journey towards independence.

When you create a north star for your life, you start giving full attention to it rather than seeking it from an external party.

This is how you re-shift your energy levels.

The law of attraction REQUIRES a mission.

If you are just someone who is winging life & showing up, then you will ALWAYS have an aura of neediness to you.

And this aura of neediness will always be sensed by someone else's subconscious mind.

They can tell that you have nothing going for you.

Which is why you are so awkward, fidgety & desperate for their attention.

But with the mission?

The entire game changes.

Now you focus your attention to what is in your control (your actions) rather than what is not in your control (other peoples perceptions).

The change in focus allows you to re-channel your energy levels.

The neediness melts off & a level of self confidence takes its place.

Look at anyone that you respect.

They are normally striving towards something.

A side project.

Building a business.

Becoming more confident.

Overcoming a long existing fear.

SOMETHING.

ANYTHING.

What are you working towards?

If you can't answer that question immediately, then chances are that you're winging life.

Pretty sure you are coming off needy. You may already know this or may be completely unaware.

Who knows.

But bottom line is that you need some direction.

If you are looking to build that direction & melt your neediness then apply for a 1 on 1 strategy call.

Let's trace back to when & why you became needy.

Then let's design a blueprint to get you where you want to be.

By crossing that bridge, you will become your most confident self.

The energy levels will be restored to the states that it was always meant to.

Social sin no more.

Excellent.

Till tomorrow

Mr. Power Up ⚡

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