The point of timing indeed rings very true to me.

My experience has been over and over again that the Universal flow is just perfect and has always been so. What is taking place at this cosmic juncture is simply the consciousness shift from the Unawareness of Perfection to the Awareness of Perfection, which means that we now come to see that even those times we considered as being absolutely imperfect back then were just perfect for our experience and growth at that time.

The more we cultivate this Awareness the more effortless it will become to trust that anything coming into our life at a certain point is just exactly meant to be there now. Authentically seeing the Perfection naturally allows us to move our mind from 'victimhood' to 'responsibility', or 'problem' to 'chance'.

It won't anymore be: life dictates, we adapt.

It will be: WE dictate, life adapts.

Or in the context of your post:

It won't anymore be: the wave dictates, we adapt.

It will be: WE dictate, the wave adapts.

The wave adapts to our unique Soul Harmony composition and will try its best to melt together with us. ;)