I think am scared of getting married, i get tired of all the ladies I have dated in the pasts especially after like 2years, could it be psychological... I'm 25years old ?

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 Fine, at the age of 25, you are tired of marriage. You are getting tired of the girls you date, after 2 years. Then how will you live with a girl rest of your life, after marriage? You will get tired of her. 

Marriage is not to be scared. It is to be lived. Sharing, caring, helping each other, forgiving and loving. If you are expecting something from girls, and you are not finding your expectations in them makes you tired. 

Girls are girls there won't be a perfect mind to mind, body to body match in the world. WHEN OUR EXPECTATIONS ARE NOT FULFILLED we are going away or getting scared. Because you are thinking that things are going out of your control. You scared. 

Try to accept the opposite, within limits. I am not telling to accept all the negatives (in your vision). You can watch your mind and environment and you can think about the values, which is to keep and appreciate and which is to avoid.

No pair is going to be MADE FOR EACH OTHER in this world, that is nature's trick to bring more and more evolved creature by combining entirely different beings.

We have to Love, adapt, adjust, respect and don't expect more according to your need. Life will be easy. You are going to marry a person from the different brought up, different mindset and a different character. Both are facing the same problem in the marriage. There begins the adventure of understanding.

Keep it in mind you are marrying a living being with an entirely different personality, not a robot programmed according to your need. Choose one girl who is not having too much deviation from your view and marry her. There is no need to scare or avoid because you want a happy married life. 

Good luck.