I think parenting techniques work on areas, but I do not mean we asians love to be shouted by iur parents. This is just to some point. No children would love to be shouted at and be discriminated even not in front of other people. Aside from the fact that it is degrading to receive such derogatory remarks, it is not helping.
Yes children are so sensitive derogatory remarks will never work on them based on what i have seen it only make things worse.