Thanks for this post!
I fully support you. I believe that marriage should be entered into when you are emotionally and psychologically mature person. Only in this way it is possible to negotiate with each other and choose one direction, only in this way a strong union can turn out for many years, for a lifetime.
When people disclaim responsibility, do not know how to make compromises and do not know what they want from life, it is foolish to believe that everything will be fine in a marriage.