8 Ways to Stand Up After a Failure

amazingvn (43)in #philippine • 6 years ago

Everybody's life has to experience the feeling of failure once, failure is to give up or after failure to stand up to go on, to taste all the bitterness and then success will become more valuable.
One of the hardest things in a person's life is to "stand up after failure." Most of the great men in the world are those who suffer from "dozens" of failures. So how to stand up after failure and seek success? Please suffer
The level of a person after a failure is not how he or she hides emotions but how he or she stands up after failure. Learn to face your own emotions when you fail, or when success is an art. Of course, in many cases you have to hide emotions, but if possible, just cry when you fail.

Courage to face your mistakes.

Success always comes with difficulties, there will not be a lifetime of pure silence or just good results. Failure to balance your life, is an opportunity for you to develop yourself more comprehensively. Accept that all things in this life do not always go the way you want, there will be times when the bass will sublimate.
Look at failure as a way to guide you through the path of enlightenment.

Do not be perfectionist, learn to control it. When you just want everything to be perfect, you will become harsh with "failures" and as a result you are vulnerable to all your mistakes and it is very difficult to accept your failure.

Learn to encourage yourself

When you meet failures, you may be very sad, but just be sad, do not be discouraged but know how to encourage yourself to overcome.
Every time stumble is a "wild", because "who should be smart but not sometimes fool," right? When you are able to say it, it means that you can overcome the feeling of failure. No one perfectly perfect to never experience the feeling of failure, look at the famous people in the world, as the famous scientist Einstein had to overcome many failures to prove For her next famous recipe, JKRowling was once rejected by 11 publishers when she wanted them to publish the book "Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone" ... learn the mirrors and encourage The teen itself. Do not stop trying, any difficulties you can overcome.
Steadiness and calm - failure is temporary

When you fail, it is easy to shake your mind and spirit, and it is important that you stay consistent with your goals and your path. Do not be afraid of failures and attach it to yourself, just take it for a moment, and I'll get over it. Remember the successful examples in the world, they have failed so much and achieved that success, and we will too.

No matter how you feel when you fall down, do not lose your temper. If you are really frustrated and angry, try to control those emotions to motivate yourself and start again.
Do not let go of anger on others. It is a very bad personality, you can even hurt others. At these times, you can go running, swimming, or boxing to relieve stress and pressure inside yourself, and you have more time and space to think back. Not necessarily the above activities, just do something that makes you really focused and need more energy to distract yourself.

Pain can not be healed overnight, you need to spend time caring care then it quickly and leave no sequelae. So, do not rush, you need time, even a lot to stand up after falling.

Fix the mistakes

"When the failures come, our common sense is to give up, but in fact failure is not frightening, the most frightening is compromise with failure. You will be happy to forget about it and not try again. The goals you set out will go into oblivion. So why do not we pass it?
Find out what's causing your failure, ask the question "Why?" And look at yourself first, as it may give you the answer. Failure is the motivation for us to correct mistakes, not to blame the circumstances, conditions, objective reasons "can not be told", that you have to be honest with yourself, face and bravely recognize his mistakes.

Failure, wrong where, we will fix mistakes there. The most important is the determination, overcome self, overcome social opinion. Like having a friend of mine say: life is only one life, live well and not repeat one of your mistakes.

Listen and ignore

When we fail, there will be two threads of opinion. First, encourage, encourage, support, admonish. The second is denigrating, scolding, ... And what we need is listening to encouraging words, tips, experiences, encouraging words to get more power stand up after failure. And ignore the denial, rumors, evil, ... not to be strayed, lost the will.

Do not watch how others look at you. Anything, anyway, then will go away after a while. Today, they may criticize your failure, laugh at you but then tomorrow they will forget again because they are anxious for their own failure.
One more thing, let's look at failure as a tool to strengthen your resolve in place as well as courage for the face with every challenge as well as criticism. This is a very positive attitude that can help you "fight" all.