Thoughts about people who always need to be the center of attention

in #philosophy6 years ago (edited)


There are people who believe themselves to be the center of the world even though they never recognize it, and it is enough for us to observe them for a little while to eventually detect the attitude of someone is extremely self centered.

They are people who constantly mention themselves with excessive frequency in a conversation. The use of this word reflects that their way of thinking have little regard for other options such as thinking in other people, or at least in groups in which they are part. A person who thinks like this, emphasizes much of his needs, but never puts himself in the place of others, or at least, it is something very rare for him to do.

A person who believes himself to be the most important individual in the world can become sort of like a judge who defend his “rights” in any situation, however, they do not give equal weight to their obligations in relation to others.

People who think they are the center of the world can be seen as someone with a very big spoiled child inside of them that they have to educate with love and respect in order to change. In fact, it is important for them to do everything necessary in order to change because the consequence of this attitude in the long term is that people end up exhausted when they engage with someone who thinks too much about himself and very little about others.

The balance in a relationship with these type of people can easily be broken wher, because both individuals aren’t on equal terms. In any affective bond, it is important to learn when to concede, and to understand that the other person does not have the obligation to satisfy one's needs because people are not used as if they were an object.



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Narcissism IS exhausting and burns out real connection. One way streets never go anywhere healthy or satisfying, I have learned. Good thoughts to have shared - thank you.

One way streets never go anywhere healthy

I totally agree with that @artemislives!

Thanks for your kind words!

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