Everyone longs for a better future, career success, household and social relationships, but we are often confronted by obstacles. And the biggest obstacle is in ourselves.

Sometimes we feel boredom, not eager in life. You feel the need for motivation from others. Maybe it works. However, to then be changed and excited, the key is yours. No one can provide better motivation, other than ourselves.

To be self-motivated, you must understand the goal you want to achieve. Do reflection, what you really want. Then, you have to develop both short and long term planning.

Success is always achieved with a process after passing through various obstacles. so do not be afraid to fail, because failure is also a learning process. Of human capabilities will also increase. Actually the word fail is only the property of people who stop trying, stop innovating, stop doing.

In addition to the courage of first capital to achieve success, there are other things that are very important also to know that is always positive thinking, always optimistic will be. Positive and optimistic thinking can be achieved by always interacting with people who are positive and optimistic mentors in doing many things, as well as with the same community of vision. Because it can drain positive energy.

Begin by having the belief that success, success, anxiety, everything is caused by a factor from within man himself. The belief that the one who created it is actually his heart and mind.

Other external factors do not really reflect the human person. Yet it is the heart and the inner mind that identify it. That is why blaming the outside factor is unwise. This kind of belief will change a man's attitude into a winner.

Humans are beings who have the gift of physical perfection, emotional intelligence and spiritual intelligence. With his intelligence, he is able to manage his heart and mind. Even able to understand how the thinking process itself.

Many people are less aware of this, not knowing, pretending not to know, or even unwilling to know that they have the ability to manage their hearts and minds. So they never realize that they have become slaves or servants of their own hearts and minds. Instead of leading his heart and mind, his whole life is controlled by his own heart and mind.