Very well-written, @tarazkp, and very deep. You're right, I can only see you through my eyes and vice-versa, I can't know what it's like looking through your eyes.
i think one should strive to get to know himself/herself well enough to know what works and what doesn't. I think a big problem is that we expect someone else to solve our problems for us. Oh, Tom said I should do this so I will and then, when it doesn't work, we feel okay in blaming Tom. But Tom only ever could tell us what he'd do, you know?
I think most of us are afraid to know ourselves, to take responsibility.

Hmm, who says they're not self-aware?
And I'd say they probably feel the same about some things, just like we do, although they'd have different reasons to feel that way and different elements would impact them, surely.