RE: Not EVERY Accusation of Male Violence on Women is REAL! (Woman Attacks Self With Hammer To Fit Up A Male?)
The very destructive thing in law is the Duluth Model.
Basically it is the story that women are the victims of abuse.
However, if you read Erin Pizzey you will see her findings show that most marital violence is reciprocal. (She was driven out of her home for stating the truth, with death threats. Her pet was killed...)
The untold story, is that men are the major receivers of violence. Many men are in abusive relationships where they are beaten by women. And they just take it, because no one believes them. No court will even do anything. EVEN WITH HARD EVIDENCE. That, and men are bigger and stronger, so for the most part, they can just take it.
I am glad that women abusing the system, that prioritizes their safety above all else, is starting to see the light of day.
I can only go by my own experience, which is that I only personally know of examples of women being beaten by men - but clearly it goes both ways. Heartlessness exists in all regions and genders.
If i went just by my own experience, than all woman are lying pieces of shit who either start fights by attacking the guy, or by verbally abusing the guy until he snaps. But, that is just my experience.
Women in our society can literally get away with murder.
(link woman who sabotaged husband's kayak )
Women in our society can get all kinds of benefits and sympathy from saying the man abuses her. However, in most states, the woman just has to claim she is scared and the police will remove the guy from the house. (even if it is his house)
Women in divorce case (very) often will state that the man abused her, this gets her immediate custody of the kids and the man removed from the house. There is no repercussions if she is later found to be lying to the family court. Family court lawyer of 20 years says this has become SOP.
It is unfortunate that your experiences have been so out of balance. Historically, the human story has been hugely imbalanced in favour of men and it has only been in the relatively recent period that things have often swung back the other way (too far), at least in some areas with regards to law/courts etc.
It is something of a trap to lump together all people who can be categorised together in some way, such as gender or 'race' etc. - since we are all unique and since there are billions of humans, we each have only ever likely met a tiny percentage of the whole. Personally, I think the common denominator in dysfunction is not a gender or a 'race', a religion or a nationality - but it is more accurately described as being self denial and denial of reality. This is the epidemic that most needs to be understood and resolved.
Very much so.
Dizney-fying marriage has really destroyed marriage. That "in love" feeling that is sold as true love and thus they will live happily ever after is very fleeting. But, we are sold on it. Sold on the idea of finding that "one true" love that will make us whole.
And this ends in failure of the worst kind.
I do not consider females as ever being out of balance.
Men are built / designed to serve women.
And, it is what we see everywhere we look.
Women cannot be made fun of without losing your TV job.
But men can be made fun of, even in such heinous acts have murder, attempted murder, or removing important body parts.
The only thing you can really point to is that men can survive. You put a man out in the wilderness and they will hunt for their sustenance, build a home and continue their life. Women do not fair so well. So, during the time of settling the nation, they were not as equiped.
However, women have always gotten the easy, indoor jobs, while men have always gotten the harder outdoor jobs.
AND! if feminism were really for women, they would tell women about their strengths (and not just playing victims)
Women are emotionally stronger than men.
Just as men are physically stronger than women.
And since we don't develop emotional understanding in men, most women can run circles around them. Men are bamboozled, laid out on the floor, and they never even knew they were in a fight.