RE: Spiritual Blind Spots: Are You Doing Yourself, What You Hate In Others?
Good is good and bad is bad. The bad thing about bad is when gone unchecked it tends to grow. This is the case here. This might of been around for centuries but was almost unheard of in the Greatest Generation. It didn't seem to show its head until Baby Boomers started doing it and most could validate as just doing good business/politics. Then it bleeds over into the Family. Parents started blaming grandparents for their mistakes or bad actions in front of the kiddos. This is IMO causes the worse kind of unhealthy stress in a grandparents life. @wizardave and I was just having this discussion yesterday. His plan as was mine up to now was to bite tongue until kidos grow up. This worked for generation X and our older grandkids. I'm afraid now in the snowflake generation that is has become such the normal and has become so rampant that is close to being out of control and will take Divine intervention to correct.
The kind of dysfunction I am describing has been rampant for aeons. Entire wars have been fought over such things.. How else could entire nations be turned against other nations and believe they are right for attacking them, based on justifications that describe crimes that in actuality both sides were involved in.
For example, it is often claimed that the USA is 'the land of the free' and a champion of fair play and honesty (like Britain has claimed) - yet, we see that in truth, the total opposite tends to be the reality. The presidents of the USA (who would not be generally described as 'snowflakes') like to point their fingers at despotic regimes, all while denying the fact that they themselves are typically involved in the same behaviours, just with different forms.
It's not so easy for me to compare the overt presence of the blame game across the latest generations, but in my own experience the older generations tended to just skip over the blame part and move straight to violence and name calling.. lol.. Not sure which is worse.
Regardless though, in all cases, what is needed is emotional healing and personal evolution. This is indeed the destiny of those who survive and it is indeed the path of grace and divine manifestation.