Trepidation And Anxiety; A Proven Precession To The Thought Of Failure.

in #psychology5 years ago

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Sometimes we're etched in preparations for the worse and the reason why this is so is because we have heard the rumours of difficult and painful circumstances surrounding a quest we are hoping to actualise. The truth is that we can never be too prepared in life and the reason is because there's always somebody who is more prepared than we are no matter how many sleepless nights we had. Life lessons has taught me that sometimes anxiety and trepidation is what follows when we have exonerated and depleted every inch of hard work inside of us and it still seems like we've done nothing at all, this is because we are always ignorant not because we are not aware of ignorance but because we do not know that there is always something much more harder than the hardest things we know. Without a doubt one can't understand how the concept of failure works until you're a regular customer to failure.

Truth is, the circumstances surrounding us is meant for us to successfully fail and sometimes the odd to do the opposite of this is often too low. Hardwork is nothing because we can't exceed our limitations in life. Our body is an encumbrance because even if the mind and spirit is willing to go, the body is often Limited because it cannot go past it's functional abilities, this Said we have minds that can move mountains and we also have ambitions that can rule the world, but many at times we have tried going for it putting our eggs in one basket not minding the weather or the storm. Sometimes courage and bravery becomes the reason we die too quick because we sometime overestimate the meaning of courage and it comes back to sting painfully

At the end of everything we put in output that nearly took our souls and they do not still guarantee achievement of heart desires, we find ourselves unknowingly accusing ourselves of being overhyped under worked and not up to par, in a nutshell, we forget what we've pastly done because we've not scaled an important hurdle in our lives, needless to say, we're at the mercy of luck and uncertainty and one thing that human beings hate the most is not being in charge of their future and who would not want to be in charge of their future? I've seen deadlier things compared to how old I seem and that is why I always walk into any situation carrying a second plan at the back of my mind. Life's is a lecture without manuals and lecturers just you and examinations you've never encountered before.

We've not finished learning, even on a death bed, somebody who is almost giving up the ghost is still yet to learn how death seems like and that is why sometimes there are so many things yet unlearned, and the most cases every stumbling block we face reveals a key to a larger maze in front of us, everyday is a hurdle and the only reason we can know where have scaled each day's hurdle is when we gently lay on her bed for the night with satisfaction at the back of our hearts. Without a doubt, waking up is a pleasure, because we have a chance, an opportunity to go over and over again. Know this; trepidation an anxiety preceded the thought of failure it doesn't prove certainty of anything.

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