I was going to say that I was sorry you and your wife had to go through all of that regarding your business, but that's not the word I'm looking for because it helped mold who you are today and I wouldn't want to retract from that person by removing the stepping stones that brought you to this point in your life.

I always taught my kids that it's the difficult times in life that really create the person you are. It's so easy to deal with the good things that come your way, but it's how you deal with the bad that determines your character; and your character @galenkp seems spot on! :)