AVOIDING TENSION IN RELATIONSHIPS

Relationship
No one relationship is ever rosy, but the individuals in the relationship are the ones who will decide the faith and length of such relationship. Based on the believe and missions of everyone involved and the kind of effort committed to the growth and sustenance of such a relationship. The kind of importance attached to such a relationship by those involved in it is of great value. To how the relationship will thrive and overcome the ups and downs it will encounter.
Every relationship has its own ups and downs like how life is, it is not always rosy. One must always be ready for the good and the ugly because they just come in a flash without notice. It is up to you to decide to either allow it to weigh you down or strengthen you. When you are weighed down remember you don’t go alone but with people close to you and when up they enjoy some amount of peace within. You either make it work or break it by creating a bridge that caters for both the good and the ugly or break the bridge that has already been built which bonds you together and go your individual ways and continue hurting within. Relationships are meant to bond people strongly together and bring peace which will translate into happiness without regret. This brings about comfortability and confidence among individuals which makes the soul glow always.
Creating a conducive atmosphere
Never allow the mode you find yourself have a negative effect on the relationship you have with any individual being casual or a cordial. Because the mode has no say between you two, it is the relationship that is, you are not to allow anything to come between the two of you. You either make sure the other is never aware of the mode you are encountering or discuss with him or her so they will know how to handle it with you. By avoiding them rather creates room for tension which makes them think you don’t appreciate them.
Avoid constant quarrelling
Quarrels are unavoidable everywhere two or more people come together. And since no two people in this world are the same, the likelihood of having different point of views too is of a high tendency. This should not call for constant quarrels in your relationship. You both never had the same training and above that too your families are not the same so when it is getting out of hand come to a consensus just to reduce the tension and move on.
Learn to trust the other
The very moment doubt is encouraged by one party in the relationship, it begins to crawl into tatters which is just the beginning to the end of the relationship. Because in every relationship trust is an ingredient that bonds it together. Without trust you cannot get closer to someone to even think of loving the person.
So no matter the offence you must discuss it to the latter and make sure there is an agreement which will not break the trust you have for each other. Also try not to hide things from one another.
Be pleased and appreciate the efforts of the other, that will encourage them to be more dedicated to you always.