Some Things Require Common Sense III, Contributed By @olawalium.
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With the way this lady went about the whole thing, it was obvious why this guy played on her and exploited her. He already sensed she is lonely, in need of a man, desperately wanted sex, and she could bargain well by impressing guys with money and he took advantage. Such guys exist, definitely and that is what some feed on; such a shame but this lady made it too easy for this guy. She needs to love herself well enough first, only then can she raise her bar and filter the kind of guys that come to her.
Guys will treat you how you portray yourself and that is the truth. This lady in question is mixing what commitment is all about. You don’t play the role of a wife while you are still at the stage of the girlfriend. If he wants you to upgrade, then he knows what to do. You don’t need to indulge such a man for crying out loud.
This guy already knows she is desperate and you wouldn’t believe what he was demanding for from this lady; boxer shorts. What kind of a man demands for boxer shorts from a lady he recently started dating? He can sleep with you, get loan from you and he couldn’t even afford to buy himself a boxer short? There is only one way such a relationship would end; the lady will be footing everything while he doesn’t show any sign of responsibility. If he can’t buy a boxer short for himself, you actually think he would get anything for you? He would be so kind to buy you a pencil.
When you have fully satisfied him by being a supplier of his shorts, he will graduate to shirts, then trousers, then shoes, etc. Very soon you will start feeding him, and then house him later and don’t be surprised that you might even be the one to buy your own proposal ring with which he will ask you out, if he ever will.
Don’t fool yourself young lady. You already know where this relationship is heading. If he is fooling you, at least be smart enough not to fool yourself.
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I hate relationships that are only for sex
I respect the relationships of love and marriage
I love marriage only
Very nice words and excellent article well done
Hahah..the humour part that you always brings with your content. Whst you call a "shopping mall"? Where mens looks out to get everything from boxer to tie just by ordering....wow that would fascinated me to have one 😉
When men started to demands in a relationship ...that would be the alarm for women to start a step back .....it is all about comon sense for common me to judge how mean that person has start getting within few days. Just fulfilling your physical need is not enough to make into any relationship. If that is your concern than a brothel lady is far more better than such women. Who atleast get something in return for all her physical desire.
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The lady should think of all possible aspects before going to relationship. As i always said "its useless to cry over spilt milk".she needs to be careful, if he demands money then she must leave him.