Some Things Require Common Sense IV, Contributed By @olawalium.
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Don’t let your desire to hold down a man make you accept the kind of husband you will be taking care of for the rest of your life. You deserve better.
I am never against a lady helping her man, but it has to be a man that is responsible, that is willing to do the same, that is ready to take initiative, that is not demanding. Ladies are not dull. They know when to assist when the occasion calls for it without being asked, especially when they know the kind of man they are dealing with, and not this kind of exploitive, selfish and lazy being.
The lady in question knows she shouldn’t be in this relationship, not to talk of sleeping with him in the first place. He seems to always place his demands right after their sex romp. She sold herself cheap, and with a great discount too. She got nothing in return. There's nothing this guy is offering her, and it doesn’t even look like he is likely to offer her anything, not now, not even the future and she knows this too well. Maybe because the sex was so good, she doesn’t want to leave him, but there is more to a relationship than sex. It involves all aspects and when only one person bears the burden all the time, there is no telling how quickly she would reach her breaking point. The reality would set in and she would rue her hasty decisions.
Maybe she also felt this guy is doing her a favour by dating her. This is what lack of self-love spring up. Your partner makes it look like he is doing you a favour by dating you and you lose your sense of worth and cling on to such a person without hope. Maybe she feels if this guy leaves, she might take a while to find another and it still boils down on not loving herself enough.
Relationship is a two way street and I never fail to tell people. You can’t be the only one doing everything when the other person is not even making a little effort. A little effort makes the other person know he or she is appreciated too. You can’t make the whole relationship all about you, because it just won’t work.
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Ahhh ...that what i mention in previous part. Mere offering your body for your pleasure is not defining a good relationship. The moment the guy start to demand after a good sex ..it is a warning sign. I belive when two individual are in a committed relationship they talk about life and love after a good sex in each other arms. They spent the moment thinking about life rather than making shopping list....the women should know she is not an ATM machine or a do not make herself a ovject to use as and when reqyured.
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I agree, sex is not everything. There should be love between both parties as love is the name of innocence feelings.love demands loyalty from two sides.
But if a man loves you, you must sacrifice for him
We must forgive until the relationship succeeds